I thank those of you who shared Clint's "final journey" with us. I hope you found inspiration and encouragement as we shared the good and bad moments over the last months until Clint found his way home to Jesus on December 3, 2004. As we journey through the next season of our lives, perhaps something I share here will help others who are also making this painful journey. If you have not "met" Clint before, please visit his Online Journal where I told some of his life's story in words and pictures. – Mommy (aka Carol)
You were loved by someone, Touched by someone, Held by someone, Meant something to someone, Loved somebody, Touched somebody's heart along the way. You can look back and say, You were loved. -----Diane Warren
Keianna:
Hello! I would like to say sorry to hear about the lost of your son. I want to thank you for blogging about your journey...it gives people like me a new, fresh perspective on what life is really about. Have a great week.
emie:
just hopping around hope ul have a wonderful weekend. care to change links? thank u
Chopper:
I opened up your Journal because of the title. We recently lost a family member. It was especially good to read all the poems, one liners, and scriptures at the end of you blogs. Made me feel good.......take care
Dee:
Wishing you a very Safe & Happy Easter weekend!
Suster Gila:
Helloo.. visiting you today. Have a great day :)
CFC:
Hello, I'm blog hopping to introduce my new blog, "Christian Fun in California." I have visited your blog quite a bit...if you have a moment, stop by and visit my new blog. God Bless!!!
Sally Ferguson:
Merry Christmas and blessings for the New Year!
Blake:
We may NOT understand why things happen to us, or the reason behined it ALL. We live here on earth seeing both good things and bad things, but ALL of it is in Gods hands, he is in control... we need to just have faith in His plans.
Clarisse:
Hi Carol! The boxes and question marks are gone! Yeah, it was a coding prob so I heard. Thanks for updating me. Wanna exchange links?
Kerri:
Hi, I was just doing some surfing. It is neat that you have a pattern you designed published. I haven't gotten knitting yet, but I do crochet. On my journal, the post before the present one has pictures of my last two afghans. I guess I need to find a baby afghan since two nieces are expecting now.
Claire:
thanks for dropping by. i have question marks everywhere , all over my posts. and you have them too. at least that's what i see from where i am. i wonder why... my other site: http://coffeeanyone.braverjournal.com has it too
katiebug:
glad to be here... have a wonderful weekend! :)
MEL:
Hi! i'm just out blog hopping and i just happened to hop into yours,! Hope you have a great day! and don't be afraid to visit my site if you have time!!! ~~Mel~~
nn:
hi, nice blog you got here, care to exchange link?
Ancestral Paths:
Hi-blog hopping-like your site & "House" too. He's like a pitbull, he never gives up! Care to ex-links? Have a great weekend.
Rev. Handy:
Just passing by to say hello and God Bless...
Kim:
Hi, was just surfing through blogs. Your blogs are absolutely amazing and inspirational.
Joanne Troppello:
Hi. Just blog hopping. I like your blog site. God bless, Joanne
june:
Hello, Your journal is inspirational and i am glad i found it.sending hugs June x
sparkle:
Today I am visiting the neighborhood and dropping off warm wishes to say have an awesome moment and week ahead and to remember you are special and important person to this world
naturalskeptic:
just one more quick tag to let you know that i read your sons webpage and my heart and prayers go out to you and your family!
naturalskeptic:
i tried to leave a comment and this is my 3rd attempt at leaving a tag so we'll see! have a good day!
Lutchi :
nice blog you got here...Visit me at my blog when u have time. TC
Sevy:
Hi Carol ---------------------------------- Have a super day !!
corina:
thanks for stopping by. If I were "hanging" in there anymore - I'd be a monkey! God Bless~
corina:
I hope 2007 be's much kinder to you...May it be a year of blessing for you.
sparkle:
I am around the neighbourhood today with new years wishes as I travel bravejournal today so am Wishing you and yours wisdom and all greatest 2007 and beyond
Carol:
I really enjoyed your site and thoughtful entries. May God bless you this New Year and beyond.
Angel:
Stopping in to wish you and yours a very Merry Christmas, Carol! I sure hope your power is on again soon. I've been following the news of the situation. Take care and God bless you, my friend.
Angel:
Happy Thanksgiving, Carol!! I love Extreme Makeover Home Edition and I usually boo-hoo through everyone of them!
diane:
What a touching blog. I am sorry for your loss, hope Bill feels better soon.
Vivian:
I love the centerpiece. Nice work!! stopped over to say hello...
Meagan:
I came across your journal, so I thought I'd stop to say hello. You have a beautiful place here. I hope you have a great week.
Cheryl:
WOW, Hawaii would be nice. Haven't ever been there yet. Have fun.
corina:
hi...It's been ages since I dropped by. Just checkin' in to see how u r doing. Anyway, Have a great week. God Bless!
Josh Nay (Jay Roberts):
Well that's great. Let me know how that goes or if you need help or something.
Josh Nay (Jay Roberts):
Ugh! Just had my tag board spammed! Well, I was really touched by your journal. Here's a tag of friendship for you!
Melody:
hi there. i enjoyed reading your journal. hope you have a nice day!
beth:
hey i left you a comment and signd your beautifull sons guest book. i was deeply touched by it.
RAINBOW:
Just had my tagboard spammed...and had a bad restaurant experience. Other than that, things are going well!
Angie:
Hi, just blog hopping, thought I'd stop by and say HELLO. Hope you're having a good day ~ Love Angie
Barb:
Just stopping by to wish you a Blessed Easter.
sis:
Hello, just read Clint's journal. It's a nice memorial. I have a memorial journal for my brother. He was killed in a car wreck on 5/1/05. He was 34. I pasted a poem from Clint's journal into mine. Thanks.
Angie:
Hi Carol, thanks for your visit and tag, hope you're having a good day ~Angie~
Angie:
What a beautiful journal you have here, I'll be back for sure. Hope your week is a good one ~ Angie ~
juicenjack:
Hello was hopping around and stumbled on to here. Enjoyed reading your and Clint's journal. I babysat and worked with kids and adults that had similar problems to Clint. God Bless and hope you have a wonderful weekend.
Storm:
just dropping by to check on you. Finally have a new computer so I can cyberhop better
Barb:
Carol, just stopping by to wish you a Merry Christmas. Thoughts of our loved will hopefully be with us and comfort us at this time. Take care.
GirlyGurl:
Hey there, just here checking out your journal. Have a nice day!
Storm:
Hi Carol, I get a "lump in my chest" reading your thoughts that you share .. thanks for reminding us how life is a
Angel:
I was posting an entry at the time you came over to my journal. Please take a second look...
Angel:
No entry for today...As if I really expected there to be. Just want to let you know, Carol, that I've thought about you and about Clint today. A year ago - yes, the time has seemed to have flown by. You were (are!) a special mother and Clint, of course, was special, as well. God's special gift to all of us. You're in my prayers today.
inhishands:
God bless you in all that you do! Grace and love be with you always! (God Is Love)
Angel:
I haven't been here in a while - life gets in the way... But when I am here, I read and read and absolutely love viewing the pictures you put up! I wish I had known Clint personally, yet I feel a special closeness with him and with you through your journal. Thank you for giving so many the opportunity to come to know Clint as you did!
dee:
I just surfed in. I read Clint's journal. I'm just heartsick. My thoughts and prayers are with you, I can not imagine the loss you & your family must feel.I wish for you a pleasant happy weekend!
Christina:
Love and blessings to one from one mother to another... ~ Christina
Eric:
Hi there, just stop by to say hello & hope this find u doing well here!
December 25, 2008
5:56 PM
Merry Christmas
Christmas is not a myth, not a tradition, not a dream. It is a glorious reality. It is a time of joy. Bethlehem's manger crib became the link that bound a lost world to a loving God. From that manger came a Man who not only taught us a new way of life, but brought us into a new relationship with our Creator. Christmas means that God is interested in the affairs of people; that God loves us so much that He was willing to give His Son. - Billy Graham
I watched the Agatha Christie movie early last night – “The Man in the Brown Suit.” Nothing to do with Christmas but it was entertaining. I was done with that by 8:30 so I talked with Barbara. A friend with four wheel drive brought her some milk and told her she had a branch or tree down across the “in” part of her driveway. She planned to check it out today so we told her to be sure she takes the cell phone with her. I talked with Nadine tonight and learned that someone broke into her g’daughter Catherine’s house in Oklahoma. They stole both Catherine’s and Dan’s computers. Dan’s computer had all their honeymoon pictures so they are distraught over that. These were very selective burglars because they opened all the presents under the tree and left what they didn’t want. We also called Jerry, Clint’s helper, and had a nice chat with him. He was at work at Western State, the mental hospital, and a patient had broken out a window and was trying to escape. Jerry will always be special to us because of his tender care of Clint. He is no longer doing the in-home care. Of course, we always told him he was killing himself working two jobs so we’re happy he’s done with that. I’m reading a book that is set in Charleston, South Carolina. I was reading along and it said that two of the characters “reached Roper Hospital….” Clint was there on numerous occasions when we lived in South Carolina. That is where he had his original brain tumor surgery in September 1976. He was in there for 60 days while he recovered from the surgery and then had five weeks of radiation. I went to bed around eleven and got up at 7:15. Yep, the snow was still there! I called Doris at 7:30. She is at her mother’s in Pennsylvania. They already opened their Christmas box so she thanked me for the various little goodies. Then I opened up one of the four remaining boxes from Linda. It contained nuts, candy, cookies, etc. The next box had a pair of house slippers which will be nice when the weather is warmer and I don’t have to wear three pair of socks! There were three more bottles of macadamia nuts in that box. The eight o’clock news reported several spinouts on Hwy 16, the road we would have to travel had we been able to go to Christmas Day dinner in Port Orchard. I called Ellen and we had a nice long chat. She loved the sea shell towels and the spa wrap. I had to explain what that was and she said it will be perfect for her to wear as a skirt at the beach. Yet! She will be going with her husband to have Christmas dinner with his ex-wife and all their kids, grandkids and great-grandkids. It was nine o’clock when we got off the phone with Ellen so I figured it was time for a crab and shrimp melt for breakfast. Ten o’clock rolled around and it was time to hit the shower. Just as I headed in that direction the phone rang. It was the folks who live in the new white house just up the hill. Bill met them awhile back but I haven’t yet. She said she woke up thinking about us this morning and wanted to make sure we weren’t trapped and in need of something. Bill assured her that in spite of having to cancel out our Christmas Eve and Christmas Day plans, we had plenty of food and would still have a nice Christmas dinner. I feel worse about Barbara being totally alone on Christmas Day. I dawdled in the shower, slathering myself with lavender bath wash so I would have a “Clint scent” (the lavender lotion the masseuse used on Clint). If they had “pizza bath wash” I would REALLY have a Clint scent! I put on his Snoopy “Ho Ho Ho” Christmas shirt and then I was set for the day. I called Barbara at 10:30 but got the answering machine. Then I call Nancy. They managed to get out a couple of times from where they live. Now they are pondering whether to go up to Seattle to her brother’s house today. They had decided not to go but he sounded so disappointed that she thinks they are going to try. Of course, she says she gets so jittery in the car in this weather she can hardly stand it. I told her that’s when I knit and don’t look! I got a report on the Angel Card project this morning. Out of 800 volunteers, 400 had reported the number of cards they sent. The 400 sent 15,310 cards for 2008. I pray each person who received a card was touched by it in a special way. We talked to Beth today. As expected they were having a hard time on this first Christmas without Jessie. Nadine called and it was raining at her house. She said they were having a quiet day. I also talked to Barbara who had checked and found that it was just a large branch and some smaller branches that fell across her driveway. We watched the movie “Fred Clause” while dinner cooked. Dinner was ready about four and our Christmas menu featured Sherried Rabbit. We prayed over the food and shed tears that Clint wasn’t here with us. Dinner is over and the dishes are done. I finished the Lillie sweater and started the Kyler Cardigan pattern. I’m off to continue relaxing in Clint’s recliner. I'm sharing a poem that was adapted for Clint from a poem my friend Doris B. wrote for her mother who “moved to Heaven” just before Christmas many years ago.
Home for Christmas He went Home for Christmas, Yet left it all behind; The tinsel, light, and glitter bright And gifts of every kind! He went Home for Christmas This celebrated day. Yet those of us who said, “good-bye” So wished that he would stay! He went Home for Christmas While bells of Heaven rang. The golden gate swung wide for him And hosts of angels sang! He went home for Christmas His humble praise to bring. Yes, he went Home at Christmas time For the birthday of his king!
===================================================== Answers to yesterday’s Christmas Song Puzzle:
1: H Y A M L C= Have yourself a merry little Christmas 2: T F N T A D S= The First Noel 3: G R Y M G L N Y D= God rest ye merry gentlemen 4: I C U A M C= It came upon a midnight clear 5: S N H N A I C A I B= Silent night, holy
Answers to Unscramble these Christmas Carols!
1. ATNSA LSUAC SI NCIOMG OT OTNW Santa Claus is coming to town 2. KEDC ETH LASHL Deck the Halls 3. LOPRHDU HTE ERD SNOED EREDIENR Rudolph the Rednosed Reindeer 4. LIGNEJ SLEBL Jingle Bells 5. TORSFY EHT WONASNM Frosty the Snowman 6. TINSEL GHINT Silent Night 7. HET TILLET MEMRURD OBY The Little Drummer Boy 8. IHWTE SARTCMHIS White Christmas 9. ODG SETR EY REMRY LETEGNEMN God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen 10. HTE STIRF LONE The First Noel